Author: Helen Leman | Posted: 06-03-2007
Professional counselors are recommending interdependence as what almost all happy couples have been able to achieve, as a
reciprocal relation between partners. A balance between partners is possible to achieve and this is the best way to have a
happy marriage and friendship relations with your spouse. Honest and committed counselors' will always find the best advices
for marriage counseling retreat.
The partners must care about each other all the time; never forget the main events in your spouse life and explore new things,
visit new places, go on treasure hunts to place like auctions, antiques shops and flea markets. Visit together each place
that neither of you has been before. Try to get bathrobes and towels to enjoy together as couples items; matching T-shirts
or jeans, coffee mugs, tennis rackets, or cell phones. Select a book that your partner will like, and try to find some other
stores to apply the same concept, such as a music store. She or he will do the same for you. Marriage counselor retreat is
always effective when partners are really involved and sincere.
During the shopping together, try to find something for her as well as something for him. Review your calendar together at
the beginning of each month and try to make all your plans together; your relationship commitment must be your first priority.
Partners who do that have really happy marriages.
As a marriage is a lifelong commitment, strengthening this relation should be the number one priority for partners. Marriage
counseling retreat is able to revitalize a marriage, using useful information about communication, and dedication to the partner.
When a spouse feels bored in the marriage, a marriage retreat week-end is the best thing for the couple to refresh. There
are religious institutions offering marriage retreats. Retrouvaille is a Catholic based program; it is a live-in week-end
program for couples who are looking to rediscover themselves.
The retreat consists is a presentation made by a married couple and a priest; they focus on specific areas of a marital relationship.
Retrouvaille can't resolve all the problems in a week-end; a series of post-week-end sessions must support couples in their
Another marriage counseling retreat is the national marriage encounter. This is a Judeo / Christian organization for married
couples. A Spanish priest founded this organization in 1952 to help couples in trouble. During the week-end, the participants
focus on enhancing communication. The couples with inter-faith marriage are welcome, previous divorces too. Participation
is free for any couple, regardless of religious beliefs.
If a marriage is really in trouble, then the partners must look for more than a week-end or two to rediscover their previous
happiness. There are also marriage classes for marriage counseling retreat. Partners will find there professional designed
relationship programs, with many techniques to improve communication skills, to get to the heart of troubles, to avoid standoffs
and connect with each other. Professional and careful therapists focus on reducing risk factors and increase the protective
ones. Partners mustn't leave their houses, they can access web sites, listen to CDs or tapes, read books.